The Preemie Primer Book by Jennifer Gunter

Having a premature baby is a crash course in both medicine and health economics. Parents face complex information, a daunting environment, difficult decisions, and overwhelming grief and worry. As an OB/GYN I have delivered hundreds of premature babies, but I really understand the heartbreak and challenges of prematurity because I am also the mother of triplet boys born extremely prematurely. Sadly, one of my sons died and my surviving boys were hospitalized for months.

 

What do you do when you have four filing cabinets full of research on prematurity, notebooks full of observations and therapies, the keen eye of an experienced physician, the inside scoop on the health care system, the experience of a mother who has been there, and breathing space now that your premature children have not been admitted to the hospital for 18 months and counting? The decision was easy: to share my unique insight into prematurity and provide a complete and practical resource for parents - a step-by-step guide through the premature baby experience from pregnancy through kindergarten and beyond.

 

The birth of a premature baby is like being dropped in a foreign country without a guide, a map, or language skills. The Preemie Primer: A Complete Guide for Parents of Premature Babies is the guidebook every family with a premature baby should own. It is the book I wished I could have read when my boys were born.

November 29th, 2009

Helping your kindergartner count (a fun and seasonal trick)

Sunday, November 28th, 2009

AdventCounting to 30 by the end of kindergarten is a math standard. Some kids enjoy counting, sometimes to the extreme. Victor will proudly display his counting prowess to 100 over and over and over again. I am so proud but if I hear it one more time I think I’m gonna scream, but I don’t because I am his mommy and it is my job to listen.

Oliver had more trouble with counting, forgetting what comes next especially once we were into double digits. However, I found the best tool available for $1.99 – an advent calendar! Yes, you remember them from your childhood. Little windows with the numbers 1 through 25 scattered in random order, each one hiding a tiny chocolate (because chocolate is a great motivator for both young and old!). Each day you can look through the previously opened windows and review the numbers that you have counted so far. Opening the little cardboard shutters is also a good fine motor skill (and I am all about sneaking that in whenever possible).

It’s fun, it involves Christmas, and there is a reward system in place. You can find advent calendars at just about any grocery story. There are more expensive ones, but why spend the money when $1.99 can do the job just as well?

Now the advent calendar only gets you 24 days, buy if your kindergartner (or pre-schooler) can count to 24 by the end of December you are almost there with 6 months left in the school year.

While we patiently wait for Tuesday when we can begin, Oliver sits and stares at the calendar (maybe looking real hard will make the chocolate teleport through the cardboard?). When I tell him there are 25 days until Christmas I hear his little voice count from 1-24 without any help, and then, bolstered by his success he carries on to 30.  I stop what I am doing, because I am his mommy and it is my job to listen.

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